A good guide is one who teaches technique students how to become good too. If you fall in love with the techniques you will progress, if you fall in love with the teacher you will limit yourself.
People are not aware – they sleep and even when a ship comes to bring them to the pleasure of life, they do not recognize it. This is because they never dreamed of the ship. If you dreamed of the ship every day, you would also get to know it in the clouds and darkness.