What do you really want?
Success is a lot of things for a lot of people, and more importantly, we are actively involved in success. If we have not created something ourselves, it is not worth much to us. When we improve our influence in communicating with others and maintain our path, we can also achieve our purpose in life.
But unfortunately, this does not happen if, for example, we lose control in communicating with the boss when he anchors negative anchors that cause stress and have long-term consequences. Unfortunately, this is not the case if you freeze in communication with others and lose control of children who do not stop playing violent games or they are stunned because the “drug dealers” have sold their interests and thinking to them better.
On the other hand, it is a great success if you can leave work relaxed, full of energy, and proud that you have done everything in your power and enjoyed it.
It is a great success to be able to communicate and thus influence other people who have positive experiences in doing so. It’s great to make your life a collection of positive experiences and live in every moment and be aware of it. It is a great success if we can act on our loved ones, especially children, as an example of a person who knows how to control himself and others.